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Thursday, November 17, 2005

girls like them guys cocky - talk cock

Most of guys that I've known are very shy when they fell in love with the girl of their dream. When they are in that state, they will pathetically being humble in front of the girl and always seek for the girl's approval. Which most of the time girls find it a big turn-off. Especially girls who are looking for a guy who can provide them security. Unless she's a control freak who like to have a puppet boyfriend or the guy is a rich ball-less man (in which the control freak would love more). You won't get the girl to attracted to you with your lack of confident and lack of cockiness.

Usually when guys want to dig out useful information from the girl before hitting on her, they would first find out what kind of guy that the girl would like to be with. One of the most preference that a girl would say they want from a guy would be. " I want a guy who's tall , or at least not any less shorter than me. " thus would render a guy who's shorter than the girl feeling hopeless. Thinking that the girl would never be attracted to him.

But before you lose any hope, remember that just because she said that she prefer a guy who's taller, it doesn't mean that she won't be attracted to a guy who's shorter. She never said she dissed those type of guy, because if she did and really meant it, you won't be able to strike a conversation with her in the first place.

Attraction is the main thing in courtship not a prefference.
Am I right or am I right?

So in order to come over it, a guy has to appear confident, not to care of his own lack-of-ideal-guy's-quality and don't appear affected by other's opinions. In which the girl would find him irresistable. (Unless the guy really is cocky and annoying beyond words.)

So when a girl say that you are short. Don't make that puppy look and let your balls shrinks like a dried prune yet. Deal with it. You can start with..

"Well I got over it, are you yet?"

By stating this, it would make you looked like you know what is going on and you are not afraid of dealing with it. And it will also addresses the issue in such a way that you'll know where she stands on it. Don't worry, if she really just can't get pass the fact you are shorter than her, she will tell you.

A counter-attack of her remark with cockiness also works.
e.g

girl : wow, you're shorter than me..



guy : Yeah, but you're kind of a freak. I think something like 1% of women are as tall as you. It must suck trying to find nice pants, huh? You have to wear all those weird pants made for freaks and stuff.


see? It will lead to some teasing with each other which is considered as one of the courting technique.

so remember guys. You have to be a little cocky when dealing with the girl you like. So stop being a wuss because

Women aren't attracted to men who are APPROVAL SEEKERS.

2 Comments:

  • Erm, i also won't be attracted to guys who call me a freak lorh...i mean, there are better jokes he can make right? just because the girl pointed out that he's shorter than her doesn't mean that he can call her a freak and make fun of her.

    not the way to go :(

    By Anonymous entwined, at 7:32 PM  

  • of course you don't have to be too harsh on her if you don't want to.. hahahha..
    just show her that you don't see your shortness as a problem..

    By Blogger hteekay, at 8:58 AM  

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