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Thursday, February 09, 2006

Are kids really that naive?

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I don't think kids nowadays are that naive anymore..Back in my day, boys don't really pay much attention to girls at school. Plus my school is all-boys school and all-girl school is on the other side. So we're pretty much contained playing among ourselves (not in sex term la of course, please keep a healthy mind!).

We don't talk about how we get into some girl's pants, we don't explore our own sexuality during primary school. All we care about are those shiny dragonball Z cards, what happened on Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle last night and how to unlock that secret character 'shen long' in the original street fighter 2 arcade game. Only to found out that it was a stupid April Fool's hoax published by that stupid Hong Kong Street Fighter 2 comic.

No we don't occupy our mind with sex, well we are curious about it, but we don't really care much about it. My 1st discovery was when I'm still 9 years old, my brother took out porn from dad's closet and play it when I was alone with him. I was so disgusted when I first watching it, thinking on how in the world would that guy still can kiss that woman's lips after she suck on his lolipop. And was curious on what came out from that guy's gun of love. I mean during that time, all I know that the liquid that comes out from there are either in yellow or sometime clear coloured. I didn't know that it can produce creamy white too.Would have asked my parents about it but after a stern warning from my brother (I'm quite fear my brother at that time), I didn't do so.

But kids I see now have started on dating even when they are still in primary school. Even my nephew occasionally talks about how he enjoy the attention he get from a girl who's in his nursery school. That boy could grow up being casanova I tell you. I don't know should I be proud about that.

I even overheard some 10 years old kid talked about sex with his friend in the park. It was pretty confusing and amusing to hear those kids talked like an adult who has years of experience in sex. They seem to grow up faster than they are intended to. Gone are days when there are boys against girls. Boys who ganging up to annoy girls just for fun. Now little boys seem to like to please little girls (not in that way!). They hold hands, and they even kissed. I don't want to know if some of them have gone beyond kissing. That would be scary if kids starting to have sex at the age of ten.O_O

Sometime I finds that parents are to blame about this. You know that some of the parents find it cute to see their son kiss on their friend's daughter? Instead of whacking the son's head and scold the daughter for being so open. They go " AAaaawww, how cute!!" and takes a picture of that kodak moment.

Yup, I do find it weird to see that.Anyway, all I want to say is, kids grow up faster than their age nowadays. They are not that naive as we are when we were at their age

4 Comments:

  • very true... kids nowadays know things that we only knew when we got into our teenager years or even older

    By Anonymous smashpOp, at 9:08 AM  

  • Oh ... was it something they eat? Those hormones is shooting like mad fast!

    By Blogger Louyau-mike, at 10:54 AM  

  • smashpop : you sound like you are at my age.. hahaha

    mikel : i think they eat testicles for breakfast.. LOL

    By Blogger hteekay, at 4:43 PM  

  • well, kids r no longer decent, naive and innocent...
    they might know more than we can imagine..
    erm..is good point that to educate them in proper sex knowledge whereby dun simply play play..
    talk crap about is alright, but dun simply practise ILLEGAL thingy ...LOL
    something they should know must proper educate loh....dun give wrong info lah...
    i.e.
    kid: mum where am i come from huh?
    mum: from my armpit...
    mum: from tong sampah??!!
    *LOL*

    By Blogger Jo, at 12:20 PM  

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