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Thursday, March 30, 2006

Fighting over girls.. Are girls a prize?

This is the scenario... Miss Janice = MJ (not a real name) is in some kind of relationship with MR. James = Ja (not a real name either), its call some kind because they have been dating for quite a while and Ja are definitely in love with MJ. He's the type who believe in true love, believe that everyone has their own other half, believe that... well you get the idea. But MJ doesn't treat it as real deal. She loves being with Ja, as he gives her comfort and lots of security. Being only 22, MJ feels that she is not ready for a real relationship. You might say she is commitment phobia, but she's not the type who would easily let go of an relationship. Have you ever feel that way? I know I do.

Even though MJ loves being with Ja, she felt there's some spark missing between them. Ja is a responsible , mature than his age kind of guy. He's a perfectionist, he got a schedule and he stick to it. MJ on the other hand has only reached adulthood, she wants to have fun, she wants experience all types of relationship, she's experimental. She's keeping her option open.

Then came along Jerry = Je ( not a real name!), Jerry is a fun loving guy, he has the charms, he's adventurous, he's spontaneous. Something that Ja lacks, one night of meeting in a club, Je and MJ quickly got acquainted and have been together behind Ja's back for two months. It was never intended to be a serious relationship but MJ and Je has a special chemistry going on between them. They both has slowed down on seeing other dates, and tend to spend more time together. Slowly but surely Je fell in love with MJ, he has stopped fooling around and were ready to commit into this relationship with MJ but there's something that Je didn't know, MJ is with Ja. MJ didn't tell him because she feels that it wasn't important. She didn't lied, she's just keeping the information from Je, and she didn't treat her relationship with Ja as serious.. but she does loves Ja very much, she loves him as much as she loves Je.

In time, Ja found out about the affair. He caught Je and MJ dating and quickly approach MJ for an answer. MJ didn't know how to react. She just stood there, looking at both Je and Ja, the two demand for answer.

Which one does MJ loves? MJ didn't know how to answer that. She loves them both. If she was given a choice, she would choose to be together with both of the men. She began to cry as both of the men she loves fight with each other. Like male two lions trying fight for the right to get the female lion, they are fighting for the prize , MJ.......

Do the guys realized that the winner doesn't necessary get the girl?


  • what kind of drama is this, man. either i've read it in a novel before or some movie. =PPpPp

    By Blogger piffles, at 2:16 PM  

  • Both guys should walk away. James, as she has cheated on him, and Jerry, as it's pretty common that if they cheat with you, they'll also cheat on you.

    Problem solved.

    By Blogger Dabido, at 2:39 PM  

  • i think it's not about the guys winning over the girl.. it's about the girl taking for granted on the guys.

    By Blogger pikey, at 12:16 AM  

  • piffles : ya ya.. like TVB right? :P

    dabido : it won't be as easy if you really love the girl..

    ????(that's all i can see as i pressume your id is in japanese): Love is really a complicated feeling, all because it doesn't really have a specific rules and laws to it. Like if a girl fell in love to another man and ran off with him, in morally term, she's a slut, a cheat... but in love term, she's just following her desire and don't want to cheat herself and the man that she doesn't love anymore... it depends on how you see it actually.

    By Blogger hteekay, at 9:50 AM  

  • u in love u say so la. =P

    By Blogger piffles, at 10:34 AM  

  • Kenny - I know where you are coming from, but there is a time in every relatinship where you have to let your head over rule your brain. I've done it before many a time, as I know that people don't change.

    I've also handed it out as advice to people ... and those who have walked away have been better for it, and those that didn't found themselves on a merry-go-round type relationship (one where they break up, get back together, break up etc) ... till eventually one day, they can't stand the pain of the merry-go-round and get off it.

    So, if they don't walk away today, they will sometime in the future. :-)

    By Blogger Dabido, at 11:48 AM  

  • piffles : ya, i admit... i'm in love with you piffles!! wahhhh~~~ <3 <3

    dabido : ya just like you and everyone else, i came from my mother's womb... XD

    ya, that's the grim reality.. when things don't work out, it doesn't matter if you really love each other anymore....

    By Blogger hteekay, at 3:54 PM  

  • i have such kind of frenz uncertainty lady..
    want to have fun and squeezing people, dun wan to lose anything from any one. so all she wants to grab too.
    what to do?
    wanna play with fire, must know how to cover ass and dun get burn one day lor...
    this type of gal not worth to investment lor..bad debt one..

    By Blogger Jo, at 5:35 PM  

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